Sunday Sermons
Healthy Relationships
Healthy Relationships
How would your wife describe you? Hopefully you and I have given no grounds to be described as Abigal did so accurately of her husband Nabal. When Abigal spoke to David about her husband Nabal, she said, “...do not let my lord pay attention to this worthless man, Nabal, for as his name is, so is he. Nabal is his name and folly is with him” (1 Samuel 25:25). This particular marriage in the Bible has always intrigued me, and begs the question how could such an intelligent, attractive, humble and kind woman as Abigal (25:3) ever have married such a mean and selfish person (25:3, 6)? While it could be that this marriage had been arranged so that Abigal didn’t have much choice in the matter, it could likewise be true that Nabal was different when younger and as he had grown older, he had become worse. Maybe Abigal had seen potential in him years ago—yet he had foolishly decided not to mature.
Dangerous Men
When it comes to relationships, friendships and associations, the Bible does warn us about the type of man to avoid:
· The angry man: Proverbs 22:24
· The Fool: Proverbs 13:20
· The Glutton/Drunk: Proverbs 28:7
Dangerous Women
There are likewise women that are quite dangerous:
· The unfaithful wife: Proverbs 7:19
· The manipulator: Ecclesiastes 7:26
· The constant complainer: Proverbs 27:15
· The self-destructive: Proverbs 14:1
Healthy and Unhealthy Relationships
How do young people avoid getting into an unhealthy marriage? What does a healthy relationship look like? God's written word offers great help to correct unhealthy behavior by giving a clear picture of what a healthy relationship looks like in various areas.
Communication: 1 Peter 3:7 "You husbands in the same way, live with your wives in an understanding way, as with someone weaker, since she is a woman; and show her honor as a fellow heir of the grace of life, so that your prayers will not be hindered."
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Trust and Support: Proverbs 31:11 "The heart of her husband trusts in her, and he will have no lack of gain."
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Honestly and Accountability: Ephesians 4:25 " Therefore, laying aside falsehood, speak truth each one of you with his neighbor, for we are members of one another."
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Problem Solving: Matthew 7:12 “In everything, therefore, treat people the same way you want them to treat you, for this is the Law and the Prophets."
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Parenting: Ephesians 6:1-4 "Children, obey your parents in the Lord, for this is right. Honor your father and mother (which is the first commandment with a promise), so that it may be well with you, and that you may live long on the earth. Fathers, do not provoke your children to anger, but bring them up in the discipline and instruction of the Lord."
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Money Matters: 1 Timothy 6:17 "Instruct those who are rich in this present world not to be conceited or to fix their hope on the uncertainty of riches, but on God, who richly supplies us with all things to enjoy."
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Mark Dunagan | Beaverton Church of Christ | 503-644-9017
www.beavertonchurchofchrist.net | mdunagan@frontier.com